After reading this i think I'm still a bit hung over. But hey!
Sorry for not writting my dear dear friend, the fact is that I have been in two very fragile states these past days... drunk and hung over. Nevertheless I have now had a good nights sleep and a lot of water. I feel fresh, happy and young again!
The past days I have been kicking it old school so to speak. Wine and late night discussions followed by home parties and drunk lesbos (if you read you now you know i'm just kidding and that i loooove you). I have been all "be cool fuck school" and gotten away with it without any consequences.
These past days a have also run in to a lot of boys in my own age. Most of them drunk and horny spying for a piece of ass, some doing it in a more clasy and sofisticated way then others of course. And then these girl that just put thereselves out there like a little baby antelope just waiting for the lions to come. I have always looked a bit down on these girls, calling them sluts like so many else. But these days I've been thinking... are they really the once puting themselves out or are they the real lions?
It is much easier looking down at girls then it is to look down at boys. Some of that has to do with our gender roles; guys are supposed to take initiatives and girls are supposed to be patience and wise. And when it comes to sex the way we look at guys and girls are especially different. A guy that sleeps around and brags about his late night concores is cool and defenetly not slutty. But a girl that does the same, example talk openly and confident about all the guys (/girls) she has fucken recieve wrinkled noses.
And if a girl and a guy hooks up and "get intimate" the first they time they ever meet we often just think that the girl is a slut and not the guy. He is imune to the slut label for christ sake!
Our generation has moved pass the hole "no sex until your married" and "sex is a sin" bullshit, so why can we also get passed the hole "gils/women that sleep around are sluts" asscrap, honestly. One can then arguee what sex really means to somebody that sleeps around like other people change underware and what love is for those who sleep around while they are in a realtionship.
But for you young and old folks out there; sex is good, sex is nice fuck somebody that treats you right!
The past days I have been kicking it old school so to speak. Wine and late night discussions followed by home parties and drunk lesbos (if you read you now you know i'm just kidding and that i loooove you). I have been all "be cool fuck school" and gotten away with it without any consequences.
These past days a have also run in to a lot of boys in my own age. Most of them drunk and horny spying for a piece of ass, some doing it in a more clasy and sofisticated way then others of course. And then these girl that just put thereselves out there like a little baby antelope just waiting for the lions to come. I have always looked a bit down on these girls, calling them sluts like so many else. But these days I've been thinking... are they really the once puting themselves out or are they the real lions?
It is much easier looking down at girls then it is to look down at boys. Some of that has to do with our gender roles; guys are supposed to take initiatives and girls are supposed to be patience and wise. And when it comes to sex the way we look at guys and girls are especially different. A guy that sleeps around and brags about his late night concores is cool and defenetly not slutty. But a girl that does the same, example talk openly and confident about all the guys (/girls) she has fucken recieve wrinkled noses.
And if a girl and a guy hooks up and "get intimate" the first they time they ever meet we often just think that the girl is a slut and not the guy. He is imune to the slut label for christ sake!
Our generation has moved pass the hole "no sex until your married" and "sex is a sin" bullshit, so why can we also get passed the hole "gils/women that sleep around are sluts" asscrap, honestly. One can then arguee what sex really means to somebody that sleeps around like other people change underware and what love is for those who sleep around while they are in a realtionship.
But for you young and old folks out there; sex is good, sex is nice fuck somebody that treats you right!
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